You really want to do something and are all psyched up. You tell
yourself nothing will stop me. But after couple of weeks you might start
saying "Meh, This is quite boring." So, have you ever wondered
why that intense sensation that made you start something new quickly faded away
in couple of weeks?
Every person can succeed in life. However, for this premise to come to
real life, some steps have to be taken.
1. No matter how big your goals are, always divide them into
smaller steps.
This is probably the most
important thing you can do in order to stay motivated in your aims. For
example, don't just say "I'm going to learn how to speak Russian in 1
years time." Instead
say "I'm going to learn the Cyrillic alphabet in 1 week, then learn 20
Russian words every day." These kind of short term goals will help you
keep focused.
2. After dividing the steps
towards your goal, praise yourself for every step you finished.
This will help you stay motivated and refuel your excitement and
rage to succeed constantly. Also, this positive attitude will make you an
optimist and reduce your stress if you have relatively short time to finish
your goal.
3. Find like minded people that have similar goals.
By doing this you will find it easier to get motivated. Forums and blogs are great for finding like minded people online. Family members and friends would be even better, as you would be also improving your relationship with them.
4. When facing
difficulties, think of how you would feel when you succeed.
You'll be one year older next year,
no matter what you do. Believe me! So, if you can cope up with difficulties in
the end you would be much richer (skill wise!).
5. While
implementing all of these, try not to get too focused.
Nobody will like you if you become obsessive. |
Don't just focus on one thing. Spread your interests! So, you
won't become obsessed with your goals and rule out the present.
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